What exactly does Total Transformation teach you? In other words, what kind of information do you get?
If you’re looking for a product that will help you to change your kids without changing yourself, then don’t buy Total Transformation! It’s very clear from the start as we go through the DVD’s and CD’s that James Lehman’s goal is to train parents to change the way they deal with their kids, which in turns makes the child change his ways.
Mr. Lehman asserts from the start that the reason that kids are disobedient, abusive, and obnoxious is they don’t know how to problem solve, and they are compensating for that weakness by acting out. As parents, our job is to teach our kids how to problem solve, and one way we do that is to let them experience the consequences of making poor decisions. In order to do that, we need to learn when to step back and not intervene in their life.
There are many different ineffective roles that parents play in raising their children – the martyr, the savior, bottomless pockets, over-negotiator, and ticket puncher are a few. These are roles that we as parents need to change if we’re going to restore the sanity around our house. James Lehman goes over each of these roles and cures for them in the Total Transformation, and I’m going to touch on most if not all of them in my reviews of the program.
Bottom line – you probably need to change. You can’t expect to fix your child if you’re not willing to learn and grow yourself. If that sounds like something you won’t mind doing, then Total Transformation might be for you.
Next post – The Total Transformation Workbook.
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How much does Total Transformation cost?
Total Transformation is relatively inexpensive, especially if you compare the price to individual or family counseling (not to say that counseling isn’t an excellent route to go – we’ve been to counseling on and off over the years, and we sincerely believe that without it, we wouldn’t be where we are as a family). However, counseling might not be the answer for a variety of reasons, such as time constraints, or just not being able to afford it.
Because of this, the Total Transformation is very appealing, since you can do this privately, on your own time, in your home. Plus, you only pay a small up-front fee for shipping and handling. You for a limited time, you can receive this for free. You just order it and complete and return the enclosed Feedback survey.For complete details about the program and the price, you can click here.
What do you get for your money?
The Total Transformation includes the following:
This is a very nice, professional looking product contained in a book-like folder, that would look great on your bookshelf. It’s very well done.
Next up – What does the Total Transformation teach you?
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What is The Total Transformation?
The Total Transformation is a program designed to give parents skills to parent difficult, defiant, or out-of-control children. It works with children that behavioral problems, kids with ADD, ADHD, ODD, Autism, and bipolar disorder. The philosophy behind Total Transformation is that children don’t know how to problem solve, and that’s why they act out in inappropriate ways, so they don’t have to face their problems. Our job as parents is to give them the skills to problem solve, and that’s what the Total Transformation does.
Who’s behind The Total Transformation?
The creator of the Total Transformation is James Lehman, a therapist with a Masters Degree in Social Work. For three decades James Lehman has worked with troubled teens, younger children with behavior problems, families and professionals who live with, educate, treat and assist in managing them. In public schools, residential treatment centers, private schools, and numerous outpatient and inpatient settings, James has developed an approach to managing children and adolescents which challenges them to learn to solve social problems without hiding behind a facade of disrespectful, obnoxious, or abusive behavior.
Next post – How much does it cost, and what do you get?
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